WHAT A LONG EXHAUSTING DAY! I went to school, waited FOREVER for my last bus, came home, ate, watched Grease, started feeling sleepy, so I took a nap while listening to Wizards of Waverly Place, woke up and got ready for work. So its been a LONG FREAKING DAY! But whats more important is what happened after I got off of work. While I was walking home, I was txting a guy that I had been talking to for awhile. He had been having some family probs which I think took a toll on our relationship and our feelings towards each other. Now I'm not blaming him nor am I saying I didn't make any mistakes, but sometimes the timing of life sucks and there's just nothing you can do about it but live with it. And we did just that, but I had begun to notice that we hadn't talked in a couple of days and I was starting to become indifferent about it. Which is a bad thing if you are in a relationship with sum1 or thinking of pursuing sum1. The whole point to being with some1 is that they are amazing, they seem to complete you, they are the person you want to share everything with and they make you wish there was more than 24 hours in a day, so you can spend more time with them or talking to them or BOTH! And it just wasn't feeling that way to me anymore. So for almost a week I sat on the idea and began to figure out what I was really feeling and what it meant to me and that lead me to 1 conclusion...While I wanted to be with him, I was so much more happier without him, but I still wanted to remain good friends. So I told him how I felt and surprisingly, he didn't put up a fight ( which is what he normally did when we disagreed about things) all he said was "if that's what you want then fine, I wont force you to be with me". I wish he would have reworded it and said "if that's wat makes you happy, then I'm happy and fine with that." But o well. And maybe I'm concluding too much, but if that's the case, then maybe he was feeling the same thing but didn't want to say anything. Or maybe he was just too tired to fight for it. But for what ever reason he didn't, that doesn't change the fact that I FEEL GREAT!!! I told him how I felt and we agreed to stay good friends. so YAY! But if I had to put into words what this feels like..its like losing dead weight or shedding dead skin or cutting off those 2 inches of split ends lol I feel almost like a butterfly who just came out from a cocoon and IM AMAZINGLY BEAUTIFUL! :) I am ready to start a new and welcome new people into my life and just have fun!!! Life is great!!! It may really suck one day but that doesn't mean it can be beautiful later. So with that said....TAKE IT AWAY MR. SINATRA!
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